I hate you -- Don't Leave me
This book is devisive & far from perfect. Ironically, even though people with BPD suffer from splitting, and most often have a difficult time thinking outside of black and white thinking, Jerold Kreissman & Hal Straus will spend an entire paragraph explaining how we no longer have a nuclear family with synchronous parental roles, and then spend four more paragraphs explaining how the mother's family roll has changed, & then the father's.
This is just sloppy, and poorly written in places.
I feel like this book is giving me BPD.
(note marker 91B & 92A)